Hi there! don’t lose hope. I have been exactly where you have been. We tried on our own for quite some time, went to the OB they put me on Clomid where I didn’t ovulate 5 out of 6 cycles. Finally, I went to an RE, where they diagnosed me with PCOS.I ended up getting pregnant but that resulted in an mc in dec 2014. In March 2015 we got the green light to start again, trigger shot and on cycle day 9. After 3 rounds of that not working we moved onto an IUI. Hubs needed 10 million sperm he had 50 million and it still didn’t work. Finally, in Sept 2015, we moved to IVF, and now I’m 23 weeks pregnant. I hope your journey isn’t as long as ours, but in case it is you have lots and lots of options in your toolbag.