Hi!Damian. How are you? Hope you are doing well. There are many options for you. But the best one can be surrogacy. Through this one of you can be genetically connected with the baby. You have to find a good clinic for it. I also have a surrogate baby. I went Ukraine for it. They themselves provide us with a surrogate mother. It is a very safe technique. It depends on the law of your country. If in your country it is banned, then you can go to another country. It is just like a natural thing. So do not waste time and go for it. Be blessed