Hello Olivia! Infertility is a bad thing happens in women life. Nowadays it becomes a very common issue amongst the women. But due to innovation, there is always a solution to everything. Surrogacy and IVF are the alternatives from which an infertile can cope with her infertility. Surrogacy is slightly better than Ivf. As you, I also had complications from the start of my marriage and I didn’t conceive naturally. Finally, I become a mother because of the blessing of surrogacy. I wish you best of luck