I am really thankful for this post. It is so honest. You are absolutely right. I second your each and every word. This should be done. I was advised the same. Initially, I was not ready for Surrogacy. For the very same reason. I was afraid and worried. I didn’t know if the child will accept it. Then I referred to a clinic. It is in Europe. The staff there made me understand this. They calmed me down. They told me how things can be changed. I owe them. I am a mother of a 5-year-old now. I can never be happier.