hey! hope you are doing fine. This is your only option to have a child. Life without having children is miserable. It is complicated but doesn’t get annoyed. let them think what they want. Surrogacy is only hope for infertile parents to have their own genetic babies. Infertility is increasing in couples day by day. IVF and surrogacy is their only hope. It is a great feeling to be a mother. Just focus on your baby. I am also a mother of a daughter. I had her through surrogacy from a Ukrainian clinic. It is not bad to have babies through surrogacy. well, hope she would understand that.