Hey, hope you are doing well. There are lot of other couples facing the similar problem in their life. You have to wait for some time to get the best possible results. This is most discussed topic on different forums. I am sure you are doing your research on this. I faced the similar problem that you are facing in your life. But luckily i find a clinic which supported me too much. And now i am in final stages to have a baby in my life. There are lot of good clinics. Many of them have huge database to select the surrogate mother. You may find problems early in your life but soon after you find the clinic. You will start feeling good about your self and you will find many interesting things about surrogacy on internet.