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March 15, 2018 at 1:24 pm #1122AnonymousInactive
I guess surrogacy is the last option for me now to have baby of our own.
I have contacted many surrogacy related clinics and had gathered quite good info about surrogacy.
I also contacted some surrogates who are willing to cary our child in their womb.
I was pregnant thrice but had miscarriages every time.
I had many complications while getting pregnant.
During my first marriage i had no luck with having children although i conceived for 3 times.
I know today surrogacy is a common thing but i am worried about many aspects of having a baby via surrogacy.
I guess we will find a surrogate wth the help of clinic we are consulting.
I am married for second time i want to have baby of my own to live with.
But regarding and having a look at my previous pregnancy period i know its not a good idea to be pregnant again.
So i talked to my husband and have agreed him to go for surrogacy option.
Although clinic has many surrogates working with it but we want a good surrogate to carry our child.
If someone has some experience regarding surrogacy please do share your experience with us.March 16, 2018 at 6:41 pm #1142Sasha JamesParticipant
Hey there. How are you doing? I hope everything is going great. I am really sorry to hear about your failed attempts. it really breaks a women’s heart. When a fellow wife goes through such thing. I am glad you considered surrogacy as an option. It’s a blessing. A blessing which gave me my happiness. I Had surrogacy too. There are many clinics which provide good surrogate choices. You can then see what goes best for you. Do your research. Take your time. I wish you good luck. I wish everything goes as planned. Hope to hear more from you.March 16, 2018 at 7:01 pm #1144zohri dianaParticipant
Hey, hope you are doing well. There are lot of other couples facing the similar problem in their life. You have to wait for some time to get the best possible results. This is most discussed topic on different forums. I am sure you are doing your research on this. I faced the similar problem that you are facing in your life. But luckily i find a clinic which supported me too much. And now i am in final stages to have a baby in my life. There are lot of good clinics. Many of them have huge database to select the surrogate mother. You may find problems early in your life but soon after you find the clinic. You will start feeling good about your self and you will find many interesting things about surrogacy on internet.March 18, 2018 at 6:36 am #1163riazoyerParticipant
Hi olivia, I’m so sorry to hear about your three miscarriages.Stay strong girl.Everything will be okay.I hope you’re doing great now.
Surrogacy may be the last option you got but it’s also the best one.If you find a good clinic, who will give you all the support.Then I think you’ll make through this.I know about few clinics in Europe which are very reliable ones.They found us the best surrogate mother.And we got all the support from the clinic.
You’ll come across a lot of surrogates.And I hope you’ll find the best one of them all.
You took the best decision of having a baby through surrogacy.Keep us updated on the whole process.
Much support to you.March 18, 2018 at 9:42 am #1173StormiParticipant
Be it a national or international surrogacy, it’s critical to be in a position where one can interview the agency and acquire answers to the following questions: How many years the agency has been in business. Why they opened and their mission statement. How many of their intended parents became parents. Their surrogacy screening process. What their agency fees include. The fertility clinics and specialists they team up with. Ask to read their reviews, testimonials and if any of their former clients would be willing to chat about their agency experience. An agency should exude compassion and professionalism, while maintaining crystal clear communication with its intended parents and surrogates. Surrogacy is a joyous time and the choosing the right agency will make the experience a glowing one. Not to mention the most memorable journey of a lifetime.March 21, 2018 at 2:38 pm #1246kim01Participant
Hey. hope you are doing good. You are making the right decision. Every mother has right to be a mother. If women like us cannot conceive or cannot maintain pregnancy then she can go with the option surrogacy. I had 3 miscarriages. Later I came to know that I cannot maintain pregnancy. I went for treatments but faced failure. So like you surrogacy was my last hope. You have to just be confident about your decision. I also had some doubts. What if the surrogate changes her mind to give me the baby. But when I met my friend she recommended me a clinic and cleared all my doubts. She told me That when a surrogate gives birth to the baby after that she has no right to the baby legally and genetically as well. Now I am a happy mother of a one-year-old daughter. I am happy that I took the right decision.March 23, 2018 at 12:33 am #1276Shirley AkinParticipant
What is the clinic you are consulting? I know a clinic that provides complete data of the surrogate. Gets a complete history from them. And also a great many number of tests. Surrogacy is a great option indeed. But the choice of a clinic matters the most. Get in touch if you need any help.March 23, 2018 at 6:51 am #1290TrishaParticipant
No matter what agency you work with. You have the option of refusing any pre-selected Surrogate and choosing another. You may also elect to find a Surrogate Mother on your own. It is promising to locate both Surrogate providers and Surrogate Mothers with us or you may be referred to a specific agency by recommendations of family and friends. During the process of choosing a Surrogate Mother. You should interact with the surrogates before making a decision. You will want to discourse your specific expectations and her individual needs and anticipations. It is vital that you consume as much time as you feel is necessary during this process. Because feeling relaxed and comfortable with the Surrogate Mother that you choose is key. If you are working with a clinic. They will provide medical records for their represented Surrogate Mother. If you have precise preferences concerning your Surrogate. The clinic will try to meet these requests within reason. When bearing in mind an independent Surrogate Mother. It is vitally important that she provides you with adequate medical records and history.March 23, 2018 at 10:55 am #1302AnonymousInactive
Hey Olivia. How are you? Hope you are enjoying your good health. Dear, don’t lose hope. As there is always a way out from your problems. Life is the name of challenges. Just face the challenges with such a strong power that everyone appreciates you. If you can’t conceive naturally. Then don’t worry. There are many other ways too. Today, many ladies are facing the problem of infertility. Those who keep strong will get something good in future. And those who lose heart remain empty handed. I am sure you have searched a lot for your problem at different forums. And I am sure you have gone through multiple information as well. My advise is that whatever decision you are gonna take, do proper research on it. Then consult with doctors. And have faith on God. Good luck!March 23, 2018 at 3:43 pm #1312AkiraParticipant
i’m new here.I’m from Japan.We moved to Europe to find our heaven.
Surrogacy is ban in Japan.And i’m infertile due to some cancer reasons. So we moved to Europe to find surrogacy related clinics. We consulted many clinics in Europe. Than we came to know about clinics in Ukraine and we moved to Ukraine.
In ukraine we found a very good clinic.
Now we are having twins with the help of this clinic.The clinic gave us a very good surrogate mom.With the help of that mom we are having our two twin daughters.
We are so excited and happy.
Feedback and suggestions much admired.March 23, 2018 at 4:18 pm #1315Jess blingParticipant
It is very common to miscarry a child. It is completely fine too because not every woman body can carry a child.Surrogacy is a blessing in disguise to those wishing to get a baby. It is the best solution for infertility or low sperm rate. I am glad that rather than grieving on something you can not control, you decided to do something about it. Make sure you find a clinic which is in your available budget bracket. The staff should be friendly enough to guide you through everything. Since you asked for success stories, I will share mine. After researching a lot I and my husband decided to go to a clinic in western Europe.My experience was great.The staff there was friendly and knew the language I spoke.We were also given full rights to consider about what kind of surrogate mother we want.You also seem very skeptical about the success rate. Let me tell you the clinic I consulted offers several tries in the same budget.I hope this was helpful for you and you will feel better now.March 23, 2018 at 5:49 pm #1317hailey johnsonParticipant
Hello there! I hope you are doing fine. I want you to know that you are doing the right thing. Infertility is so common these days. The problem is that people don’t do anything about it. I got married in 2009. I have had three miscarriages since then. I had lost all hope to become a mother. Then I was told about a Ukraine based clinic by a former colleague. They informed us about surrogacy. We were reluctant in the beginning. Nevertheless, we took our chances. Now I am blessed with a beautiful baby boy. I wish that everyone gets blessed with children. Best of luck. Love!March 24, 2018 at 3:12 am #1324AnonymousInactive
This board has amazing moms, and quite informative. These boards are a motivation for others, who are confused about what to choose as a way out to infertility and live a blissful life. I have experienced three CP’s along with 3 rounds of failed IVF’s.I have been toying with the idea of gestational surrogacy for a year now, and OH and I are flying next month to meet with our surrogate mother. OH has no major issue but I am LOR with Low AMH which has lowered my chances of conceiving naturally. We have decided to try this as our last resort. Its good to know fellows that you have been so strong bearing all sort of losses and then finally making it to the right path. I wish everyone who is pursuing surrogacy a blissful journey with a healthy surrogate mother.March 26, 2018 at 12:14 pm #1406MilanParticipant
If you do not already have a surrogate in mind. Such as a friend or family member. You can contact an agency or fertility clinic who will help you find one. There are a number of important factors to consider when choosing a carrier for your surrogate baby including: The surrogate’s medical history. The surrogate’s lifestyle choices including their history of drinking and substance abuse. The cost of the surrogacy process. The legal issues.What kind of relationship you wish to have with the surrogate after the child is born. When you are looking for a surrogate with whom you can entrust the first nine months of your baby’s life. You will want to find someone who will treat the pregnancy as if it were her own. If you do choose to find your surrogate through an agency. Ask them about their screening process for surrogates. What they are like and why they do this to determine if the agency is able to provide you with the right surrogate for you.March 26, 2018 at 6:22 pm #1423AnonymousInactive
It is painful to read posts about MCs. I am so sorry that you had MCs repeatedly. You took the right decision for not getting PG again. I would have done the same, too. In fact, I already did. Let me tell you my experience with surrogacy as you will. I am from US, and aged 32. My problem is endometriosis which I inherited from my mother. Soon after diagnosis, we had to get a hysterectomy. That was a very tough decision. I knew that after hysterectomy, I would have ZERO chances at PG. Anyway, we decided we’d become more open to alternative methods to have a baby. We went for the hysterectomy. After research, we landed at a clinic in Europe. The clinic was very professionally maintained. We chose the surrogate mother from their database as they had quality standards. Despite all this, they didn’t charge as much as we were being charged in our own country. They provided us with all legal and medical information. They even assisted us in carrying out all the legal formalities. Now, I am a mother of a happy two-year-old.
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