I think your daughter is just going through the normal children’s tantrums. When your kid’s in the middle of a tantrum, it can be tough to keep yourself from having your own meltdown, too. Your preschooler can finally use words to tell you what she needs or wants, but that doesn’t mean her tantrums are over. She’s still learning how to handle her emotions, so a minor disagreement can quickly turn into a full-on fit. Because your child also values her growing independence, needing your help can be frustrating. She may lose it when she tries a challenging task. Their communication is limited, yet they have all these thoughts and wishes and needs to be met. So try to understand the reason why she wants that name and check if 20 years from now it will still be reasonable. If not, then do not use that name.