You can easily have a baby. You are right science has progressed a lot. But having a baby is little bit complex. You have to face all the difficulties to have a baby in your life. Many couples have done the same thing in their life. And now they are having a baby through surrogacy or IVF process. You can do the same thing in your life to have a baby. My wishes are with you. All you have to do is to find a clinic for your self. There is no need for you get frustrated in your life. You have to find the solution so you can easily have a baby in your life. I am very much impressed from you the way you explained all your problems. Soon you will have a baby in your life.