Hey Jules!!! If you are making the solution to your problem with surrogacy, then wish you good luck for your future. The thing which you pointed out here that you’re in-laws are not much happy with this decision. As for as the religion is the concern with all this matter this will be a great debate. And to me, this debate will not be fruitful for your final decision. Surrogacy, not only in Christianity not allowed. But almost every religion did not give permission for it. Because children are not right for every person. Rather it is a blessing of God to His people. But u decided to have a child through surrogacy then you should ignore all the religious aspects. As u told that you are in early stage of surrogacy, it is better to leave this debate. Because this time is not for debate. So you should stick with the decision u have made. And the matter of your in-laws is the concern to your husband. He should be able to take his life by his own way. He is the married person now. He should handle his parents too. But there are good wishes to you for your incoming life