Surrogacy is a broad and sometimes complex topic to understand. Let alone explain to children. Luckily, books exist that help simplify the concept of surrogacy in a way that young ones can understand. There’s no need to talk down to your child. They are capable of thinking in unique ways and can learn faster than we realize. At the same time it’s unlikely your child knows what “in-vitro fertilization” is. Focus on terms and concepts that your child can understand. Explain that you will carry someone else’s child for them to help them start a family. Share the experiences of other surrogate mothers who have gone through the same journey. Get your children involved with your journey. Your children don’t have to be detached from your surrogacy journey. Show them photos of the intended parents or the baby’s new home. You can ask them if they want to draw a picture or write a letter for the family. The best way to share your journey with your children is to get them involved.