Hey Jules!. I can totally understand you must be exhausted. In cases like these its already so stressful and cases like these increase the issues. My father was also against our decision of going for surrogacy. We still took our chances. Now I am blessed with a beautiful baby boy. The best part is when Dad looked at his grandson. He immediately apologized to us for not supporting in this. You should not hesitate. Best of luck. Cheers!