there is nothing to apologize! you shared a great thought.
For me, babies are babies they are a little world. no matter what they come. They filled every one lives with happiness. such little world filled up that empty space and feelings,
this is what each one has to understand. That what sort of happiness we are looking for.
there is nothing bad in doing either surrogacy or IVF.
we are just making an effort to make our lives complete. and filled with love.
Is it fine to suffer your whole life with that sort of emptiness?
I would suggest each one who suffers infertility just show the world that you deserve this happiness.
Good luck everyone.XX