Welcome Gina, to this forum. I read your post. This is really concerning post. Totally agree, with it. You have to give something o et something. Surrogate mothers suffer from a lot of emotional and physical pain. They should be charged with it. They are giving the infertile couple a great gift in their lives. But there are countless couples as well. who can not afford these expenditures? While having a strong desire of being parents. They also have a relief as well. what do you about this?