Hey darling, Sorry to hear about your loss. I will prefer surrogacy over IVF. As you know, the success chances of IVF is 50%. Surrogacy has high success rate. Also this process is easy. You need to be mentally strong. I heard from many people about it. It has the positive response. Surrogacy is successful in my case. i am also an infertile. I can’t have my own baby. Now i have a healthy baby through surrogacy. We are living happily.That’s why i am suggesting it. I hope you will make the right decision. Best of luck.