I totally agree with all you said. I believe this was a much-needed topic. No one ever talks about it. Though it is equally important. I think the child needs to be told about everything. It is his or her basic right. Now obviously some children are sensitive. Right age and time need to be taken care of in this case. Otherwise, they should be told as soon as possible. It is better to tell them yourself. It won’t be good if they get to know from someone else. It will hurt their feelings. They will feel betrayed. So if they are adopted, Conceived via IVF or a surrogate baby. They need to be informed.