Hey there. How are you doing? I hope its all good. I know it what you are saying is right. People should know about themselves. Parents should tell them. Surrogacy has helped many people. People in the joy usually don’t tell their children about it. It helps children a lot if you tell them. It is even a trust exercise. I hope people understand it. I wish everyone good luck. I hope they find their happiness. Its all a more mt of positivity. Lost of love and support. Prayers too.

You are correct. There is a confusion about surrogacy in our general public. It is essential for us to tell our children their introduction to the world stories. I have twins through surrogacy and I went to a clinic in Europe for it. I figure one ought to run with the choice to educate them regarding it. I will surely tell them one day. They would understand what we have been through. Furthermore, it is an astounding procedure. It is now and again last seek after guardians.

Hey there. This is such an important post. Surrogacy is really important. It’s 2018! I can’t people still have negative thoughts regarding it. There really is no shame in it. I’m going through the process. I plan on telling my baby, how he was conceived. There shouldn’t be any problems with this. We’re not living in the 16th century! Even my own family was against my decision of surrogacy. But what am I supposed to do? Should I kill myself due to depression? Doesn’t make sense. Thank you for talking about this.

I totally agree with all you said. I believe this was a much-needed topic. No one ever talks about it. Though it is equally important. I think the child needs to be told about everything. It is his or her basic right. Now obviously some children are sensitive. Right age and time need to be taken care of in this case. Otherwise, they should be told as soon as possible. It is better to tell them yourself. It won’t be good if they get to know from someone else. It will hurt their feelings. They will feel betrayed. So if they are adopted, Conceived via IVF or a surrogate baby. They need to be informed.

Hey there, I totally concur with you in this regard. That was one of the most necessary problems to be discussed. Very rare people even discuss it. Well, it’s so much important for a child. The child must know the reality of his birth. It’s his basic right to know about his surrogate mother. But you have to be careful in this regard because some children are so sensitive in this regard. It’s permanent fear for you that they can do anything to themselves. Rather, you can tell him when he grows up enough to bear such things. I would recommend you to consult some psychologist for it. Then, it’s also better if you visit that clinic along with your child. I’m sure, he’ll understand you. Dear, surrogacy is a better option than adoption. I would recommend every aspirant to choose that clinic which guarantees you the childbirth and surrogate won’t interfere in the future life of a child. My sister also had surrogacy treatment from Adonis clinic in Europe but unluckily they disturbed her so much after that. Wishing you all the best!

Stormi, I read your post. I am agreeing with this research. But according to my concept, you shouldn’t tell your kid. Forget what you have done. Consider it a bad dream and move to another place. I know relatives and friends will tell him. But wait for some time. after getting mature then tell him about the reality. He will realize your efforts and sacrifices.

Hi! Stormi, I hope you are doing well. Actually, I believe ur absolutely right. sometimes something’s seemed to be right if they are hidden but the reality is the truth is something that always wins. Nothing wrong in it if parents clearly tell the truth to their child.T his not only increases their parent’s respect in their eyes but also their love will also be increased while on the other hand. If they will hide the reality from them then their trust might be shattered. Surrogacy is not a wrong method but if parents will feel ashamed of it then children will consider it negative. Donor concept and surrogacy have gained popularity worldwide. It is a blessing indeed for all those couples who have problems related to reproduction. It is nothing to be ashamed of.T his surrogacy is actually a blessing for the couple but if it will shatter self-esteem of the children then it will no more be a blessing for them. I believe it is difficult for parents to tell the truth but if they handle the situation intelligently and calmly it will save them from negative circumstances.I have heard this that we can hide lie for some days, few weeks or might for few years but the truth always come.SO it is better, to tell the truth rather being sorry at the end. All the best to all the parents out there who are surrogate parents.Your post will be a great help for them