Hi, Stormi, I hope you are fine. It’s a very common thing for people. To ask such questions. Because of they can’t understand the pain of infertility. Most of the people put all the burden on females. In some cases, males are also infertile. But it’s easy for them to put blame on females. But my Freind you have to be strong. Tell them that it’s your life your choice. Tell those people to keep their nose out of your matter.be happy with whatever you have. You will have children soon. Trust me and be strong. Ignore what people say. Till then best of luck