Hey! Hope so you are doing good. I just read your post. I felt so sad to know about your miscarriages. But you don’t need to worry. It is the part of life. I’m proud of you because you are moving on forgetting the past. A lot of people lose hope after getting failed once or twice.
I think the option of surrogacy seems best for you. I suggest you choose that clinic that is specialized for such treatments. There are some clinics in Europe for surrogacy. I think you should consult them. I have also got many great reviews about them. They also provide their customers with gender selection. Their staff is very cooperative and supportive. Expenses are not so high there. I think you should consult with your doctor about it.
All my sympathies are with you.
All the best