Stormi, you have discussed an important aspect or feeling of a real person who is struggling with TTC. Men are also affected by the interrogation of people regarding the TTC. Whatever, you have mentioned can only be understood by the one who is struggling or been through the TTC struggle. And some want to keep it private, or some open up with the struggle just to let people know the reality of the journey. People should not go all judgmental whenever a couple is having problems with TTC or not even planning to. What I think is that none should get affected by what people say as long as you know you are doing right. Good luck Stormi.