Hey, Tifanny I can completely understand you. However, you shouldn’t care about what people think. It is your life and you get to live it the way you want to. If you can still produce eggs which are healthy then you can opt for surrogacy. This way the child will be genetically linked to you. Otherwise, you can go with DE and it wouldn’t even matter. As the child will still be linked to the father. Just be more positive and confident.