That’s perfectly said. You see the effort the surrogate does to bring your child to this world. You just can’t pay for all those efforts. It is not easy to carry another’s child. Knowing that one day you have to hand over this to intended parents. They involve you in the whole journey. Yes, you pay them for their services. But you have to consider the efforts they are doing.
I just wish that each surrogate could get the same encouragement and love from the intended parents as they deserve. Don’t treat them as your surrogate only. Treat them as a family. I have watched some families that even involve their surrogates in their children’s upbringing. That’s what all you have to do.