When I was diagnosed with a poor ovarian reserve with low amh level and high fsh levels. I was told by the doctors that IVF wouldn’t work for me. Even if it did work it would lead to MC. Therefore, the doctors suggested that I should opt for IVF or surrogacy with DE. It was an extremely difficult decision to make. I had never thought that I would also have to make this kind of a decision. My husband was not really that willing to opt for it. However, we also wanted to have children of our own. Since the day we decided to opt for De. We told ourselves that we will tell our children from the start. I think children have the right to know about everything. When the clinic gave us the access to their database and we chose the DE. I saved all her information so that the child could later even go through that. I don’t want there to be any confusion. Loved your post.