Hey, Ronni I hope you are doing well. I can understand that it is really a confusing situation. You just have to be well-researched. In my personal opinion, I think surrogacy. Ther are two reasons for it. Firstly, the cost of traditional adoption is the same as surrogacy. however, through surrogacy, the child will be biologically yours. For a lot of people, this is really important. Both the procedures are very lengthy and therefore, there is no much time difference. Adoption involves a lot of legal/paperwork. I hope the confusion is soon solved. I opted for surrogacy! So far everything has been going great. The main reason is the clinic I chose is operating at a very high success rate. They are efficient and professionals.