It is great that you are thinking about such methods. They have been serving as a magic to so many couples. My cousin sister is a victim of infertility too. She has two failed IVF. And, also one failed IUI. There was never any luck. She then had surrogacy from Ukraine. It was a wonderful experience. She was fully entertained. The doctors had been quite supportive in this regard. She is now a blessed mom. I think IVF would be a complicated process. If you want to have your own child, go for surrogacy. Rest the decision is all yours. Think wisely. All the best to you.