Hi Ronni! Hope you are fine. All infertility treatments are helpful and it is up to you to choose which one to follow. For my surrogacy was the way to go since IVF was unsuccessful. For some Adoption is the way to go. It falls down to what you want. I wanted my own biological child so I went for surrogacy. If you are open to adoption there is no harm in it. We should be willing to try anything to be happy. All the best to you.