hey dear, I am so happy to see you looking into this matter with full determination even after being through all the tensions and all. To you, it is advisable to get to a clinic to look for a surrogate mother for you. See looking yourself is hectic and many clinics offer their own volunteers and you have complete choice of choosing the best one among them of your favorable traits. The clinics are really helping in such matters and make sure that the client is 100% satisfied after that the trials come. These sound tiring and the wait is never stressing free but you when you win some you lose some You must look for the healthiest possible choice, after all, she is to bear your child for you.you don’t want any complications in your way. The health of the mom should be your first and foremost priority. Look for the best clinics first. As many are imposters and do not fulfill the requirements.Good luck!