second baby maybe?
March 30, 2018 at 3:51 am #1533VictoriaParticipant
Hi everyone! I hope you all are good. I went with surrogacy to get my first child. A daughtetr. It was a clinic in Europe and I had a great experience with it. It didn’t drain me financially. It even provided some really good services alongside the treatment. There was free food, transport, and accommodation for my stay! Howver, now I’m thinking of another baby. I’m unable to conceive myself so surrogacy is my only opttion again. I’m wondering if its worth it? Getting anothr child? It’s something ‘m talking to my husband abbout. The expense, although reasonabble compared to many clinic, is still there. I want to know your thouughts on this. Would yoou suggest me to go for it?March 30, 2018 at 12:07 pm #1544MonaParticipant
Hi there! I hope you are fine. Well, firstly I’m sorry to hear about your infertility. But I am glad that you faced this situation bravely. And didn’t lose hope. Congratulations to you on your first baby. It must have been the happiest moment of your life. Surrogacy is a great method to have children. I went through surrogacy thrice. I have 3 children. 2 boys and 1 girl. I consider myself the luckiest person on earth. Although I could not conceive naturally, I still have my own biological children. they are my world. And I feel proud to have taken this decision. You should give it another try too. It’s worth it. Kids are a blessing. Why would you say no to them? I wish you good luck!March 30, 2018 at 6:28 pm #1558AnonymousInactive
Hola @victoria, thanks for your hospitality. I hope you are doing good too. Also, you were enjoying life too. Your story is so inspirational dear. It really filled me with hope and courage dear. Good to hear about your child. Hope she is sound and healthy. I also have a baby boy. Due to the complications caused while his birth, I really fell sick. I tried to conceive for more than two years but didn’t found any signs of success. Doctors declared my infertile. Now I’m fighting with secondary infertility. Then, I have decided to go for surrogacy. I have visited many forums but didn’t found anything so helpful. But as you have gone through surrogacy procedure, I think you can help me. Many people have shared their success stories on the internet. They have mentioned a very prominent clinic which is offering surrogacy at a feasible price. I would like to discuss with you in such regard. Thanks for your time!March 30, 2018 at 6:37 pm #1560chicagoParticipant
hello Victoria. I see you after a long time. how you are going.? Hey, then congratulations dear on this big achievement. How’s your daughter now.? Well, thank you so much for sharing your story. That’s why you were absent from the forum. Keep smiling.March 31, 2018 at 6:36 am #1569AnonymousInactive
surrogacy is the most common method or way of having a child.
i was also very stressed during my first marriage as i had many complications while getting pregnant.
I conceived for three times but always resulted in miscarriage.
I’m 43 years old now.
Now i am married again and me and my husband are thinking of having of having a baby.
I guess keeping in aspects like me a woman should probably go for surrogacy method to have a baby..
We are looking for a good clinic to support us and guide us through the whole process.
BioTexCom is a good clinic with very good reputation. MAy be you can have a look at it.
We researched about a number of clinics over the web and found many good clinics as well.
You should also do research about surrogacy related clinics as well over the web and look for the best clinic.
Surrogacy is the safe and the most good method of having a baby for women like us.
Wish you a very good luck.March 31, 2018 at 8:25 am #1570Joanne SilviaParticipant
Hello there Victoria. How are you? It’s refreshing to read such a post. Congratulations to you and your DH on your first baby! I hope the procedure went smoothly. I’d actually love to hear more about your surrogacy experience. How do you feel, now? I’m sure you guys are absolutely delighted about your baby. As for, the second baby, go for it! I mean, why not? You’ve had success with your first experience. If you guys can manage it financially, then I see no reason as to why you wouldn’t want to do it again? Babies are a blessing! Good luck. I hope it goes great for you, once more!March 31, 2018 at 11:43 am #1573StormiParticipant
There is a lot of factors to consider when it comes to surrogacy. To begin with, I do not think it is legal in the UK. Or to put it in another way, in case your surrogate decides to keep the baby. You cannot enforce a surrogacy contract in court. You will have to go through a court process which can easily go out of your favor. Secondly, it greatly depends on the experience of the surrogate which will also determine the cost. The cost can range from $ 10k up to even $20k depending on the specific surrogate as well as where you decide to find one. It is cheaper in other countries such as Ukraine. If you are considering surrogacy in other countries (specifically poorer ones) you need to be careful in terms of the mental and physical health of the surrogate. As well as their full knowledge and cooperation in the process. It is common for girls to be taken advantage of in such places. You may think independent surrogates are more risky, not necessarily. They are people who want to give the same gift but save couples money because agencies charge ridiculous money to do no more service & you may be waiting longer but you may find it reassures you more, it’s up to you.March 31, 2018 at 2:57 pm #1581kim01Participant
Hey! surrogacy is a common method of having babies. It is a great news that you are planning to have babies. You should go for it. surrogacy is a good process of having babies. I am also an infertile woman. I had 3 miscarriages in the early year of my marriage. I was unable to have babies than babies because I was not able to maintain pregnancy. I was so broken but I didn’t lose hope. I wasted few years to conceive but failed. After that I chose surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe because it was convenient for me and affordable too. I was happy that I chose it and now I am a mother. I am planning to have another baby. My DH also want another baby. You should go for it too.April 20, 2018 at 4:37 pm #1924ezabelParticipant
yes, of course, you are good to go!
there is nothing like having a duration of the wait.
as if there is a woman who would offer you conceiving and she is good to carry your baby
then you should go for another one,
this is quite tough to find yourself a good clinic and good surrogate.
If you have got both, then there you go.
do share your details here.
that might also help out others.May 5, 2018 at 1:37 pm #1970TrishaParticipant
Surrogacy is one of life’s most exciting journeys for both IPs and Surrogates alike. The joy felt during this thrilling time period is monumental. Something you will no doubt want to share with those closest to you. Unfortunately, as many Surrogates and IPs have found, not everyone will be able or willing to share in your enthusiasm. Many people do not understand surrogacy, and we know it can be difficult to handle negative opinions from others. Especially with a topic so close to heart. Many Surrogates and IPs do receive full support from their friends and family. Which is wonderful. However, it is always best to be prepared for if and when questions begin to rise. Keep in mind you chose surrogacy because it was the right choice for you. Not everyone will agree, but handle all opinions. Both positive and negative with grace. And continue to look forward to the birth of the baby. The road may be bumpy, but the miracle in the end will make it all worthwhile.May 10, 2018 at 8:14 am #1996MilanParticipant
If you don’t have someone you know willing to carry a child for you and you can’t pay the exorbitant price of an agency. There are very few options left. One of them is to go through an agency abroad in a country that would be far less expensive. Surrogacy in a place like this can be exploitative. The women may feel it is necessary to do for the money. In order to aid their own survival or that of their family. Intended parents are generally not present for much. You can forget being there for the birth of your child. And I’ve read of many cases where the communication was sparse at best throughout the pregnancy, in part due to the language barrier. In addition, the reality of obtaining a passport and traveling back home overseas with a newborn seems staggering– a 14-hour car ride in our own country was hard enough.May 10, 2018 at 1:44 pm #1997riazoyerParticipant
Hi there! I hope you are fine. Well, firstly I’m sorry to hear about your infertility. But I am glad that you faced this situation bravely. And didn’t lose hope. Congratulations to you on your first baby. It must have been the happiest moment of your life. Surrogacy is a great method to have children. I went through surrogacy thrice. I have 3 children. 2 boys and 1 girl. I consider myself the luckiest person on earth. Although I could not conceive naturally, I still have my own biological children. they are my world. And I feel proud to have taken this decision. You should give it another try too. It’s worth it. Kids are a blessing. Why would you say no to them? I wish you good luck!May 10, 2018 at 5:37 pm #2012riazoyerParticipant
I hope you are fine. Well, firstly I’m sorry to hear about your infertility. But I am glad that you faced this situation bravely. And didn’t lose hope. Congratulations to you on your first baby. It must have been the happiest moment of your life. Surrogacy is a great method to have children. I went through surrogacy thrice. I have 3 children. 2 boys and 1 girl. I consider myself the luckiest person on earth. Although I could not conceive naturally, I still have my own biological children. they are my world. And I feel proud to have taken this decision. You should give it another try too. It’s worth it. Kids are a blessing. Why would you say no to them? I wish you good luck!May 10, 2018 at 5:44 pm #2015Felicia SazParticipant
Hey. How are you doing? I would suggest you go for it. I had my first child about a year ago. He was born through surrogacy. My experience with the clinic I chose was so good. I think I went to the same one as you did. I have recently applied there for another baby. I thought my baby would want a sibling. My husband had been dropping hints that he wanted to have another baby too. I think you shouldn’t even delay this. I applied right now because I want to go for gestational surrogacy. I want my child to be related to us genetically and be a real sibling to my son. Your situation is very much similar to me. So I really suggest you go for it. The clinic is amazing and you are experienced too. I’m sure you will do things in a better way this time. Good luck.May 11, 2018 at 9:16 pm #2024Sasha JamesParticipant
Hey there Victoria. How are you doing? I hope you are doing great. I am really happy to hear about your success with surrogacy. I know it must have been a hard decision. I have been through it. SUrrogacy for me was a blessing. However, you should go for it. It’s your decision. If you want another child go for it. Why even ask. I wish you good luck. I hope it works out. Take care. Hoping to hear good news soon. lots of love and prayers.
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