This is interesting. I really do not have the right way to keep it that way. Like telling your in laws to butt out of my business. Anyway I understand you. Some people say that surrogacy is not allowed in Christianity. And I keep wondering. What if someone is infertile and this is the only solution. I just feel such people are inconsiderate. They are saying that just because they are not in that situation. People who go through such cases are the ones in pain. They just look from the sidelines. Maybe if they could be going through the same they could just take the same pathway. And in Christianity it is not allowed to judge others. Who are thy to point fingers at you. If that is what will help. Then go for it dear. Let not people who do not know your life stop having a talk in it. The best thing to do is to assume. Let them be. They will find themselves irrelevant after sometimes.