I am sorry about your PCOS. I have fibroids, which makes it difficult for me to carry to term. This is not what I had imagined. I always thought id be able to carry my children myself. But at times things do not work according to the plan. I agree that losing hope is not the way. I am looking into other options like surrogacy myself. My husband has shortlisted a clinic. I cannot wait to go there. Apparently, it is the best at surrogacy.