HI, hope so fine Tiffany. I would like to appreciate this post. It will be helpful for many. People have no idea to deal with such a situation. This all can be explained by someone who is gone through this. When a child is brought through the process of surrogacy then we have to deal with so much emotional stability. If the pre-birth order is secured then it will calm and provide you a strong bond with the baby. And make many things go with the flow.