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    The hospital stay is obviously a very exciting time for everyone, as everyone’s hard work and dedication will soon result in a beautiful newborn! The events of the hospital stay and the surrogacy birth will likely have been determined by now. We will have already prepared the hospital for the surrogacy, whether you will witness the birth in the delivery room, how much the surrogate wants to be involved in the post-birth celebration, and much more. Once the surrogate is ready to be dismissed, you will all leave the hospital together, forever connected. Clearly, securing a pre-birth order will give you peace of mind that the child is absolutely, and most importantly, legally yours. Whether you can complete a pre-birth order or another kind of parentage order will depend on your state surrogacy laws, but your surrogacy specialist and lawyer will have discussed this with you during the contract stage of the surrogacy process.


    When a baby is born via surrogacy, an emotional transfer needs to take place from the surrogate family to the intended parents. This emotional transfer allows the baby to begin bonding with his or her parents and vice versa. While intended parents may not have the same prenatal bonding experience with their new babies, there are many things you can do to prepare for the emotional transfer of the baby and ensure you are ready to develop a healthy attachment. Many intended parents choose surrogacy after years of struggling with infertility, and I say it is healthy for intended parents to move through the grieving process before their baby is born. Intended parents are encouraged to remain as involved as possible throughout their surrogate’s pregnancy. I suggest that you attend doctor’s appointments, decorate the nursery and have a baby shower. When you take an active role in preparing for your new baby, it can help you develop a sense of connection, attachment and anticipation for your child.

    Joanne Silvia

    Hello, Tiffany. I hope you’re alright. This is brilliant information. It’s all really basic. But, people do NOT have this! Thank you so much. You’re doing a great job. Keep it up!

    Lauren Rhoades

    Hi, Tiffany. How are you? I hope you’re doing alright. Thank you so much for this. You have no idea how helpful this is. People LACK this information. Only people, who have gone through this, can realize how important it is! Thank you for doing this. You are doing a great job. Keep it up. This is nothing less than humanity service. You’re a great woman. Surrogacy is a procedure which has a lot of complicated paperwork. And, the legal side is hard to understand. I’m glad you’re talking about it!

    Jessica fields

    This was a great informative post. I am in the initial stages of surrogacy planning. This really was helpful to me. I will contact my clinic and talk about these things. I hope the laws are the same in Europe. It is where I would be getting the surrogacy done. Thanks for this helpful post.


    Thanks Tiffany for sharing this awesome post. I am the lucky one to go for surrogacy soon. I am positive that things will absolutely change for me. I am a TTC for last few years. It was a hard time for me. I felt very bad until I learned about surrogacy. You are right about the legal matters. It is very important to take care of all the contracts under the supervision of the best fertility agency. This can save from the post procedure complications.

    Jess bling

    I truly admire your effort. All this added to my knowledge. One of my friends is suffering from stage three cancer. It is not advisable for her to get pregnant. Though she wants to have a baby. I recommended her Surrogacy. She is in touch with a clinic in Europe. I will tell her about these things too.


    This is beautiful. It reminded me of my time when I had a baby through surrogacy. It was the best experience of my life. I felt so happy when I hold my baby. The clinical staff was with me for the whole journey. And I can never forget their hospitality during my stay there. Your post is really very creative.

    Farah Smith

    Thanks Tiffany for this post. It is really informative and helpful to me. We all should know about these things. You did a great job for guiding us. Surrogacy is an amazing treatment. It will be successful if things will work through the proper clinic and proper paperwork. Good luck to everyone who is going through these treatments.


    Hey, Such good words you said. Through surrogacy, two families are connected together. I know babies are the biggest blessing for the people. Surrogacy is not legal everywhere. It is legal in very few countries. Through surrogacy, a woman has a genetic baby. I hope that this will help the infertile. They should go to the best clinic that they are comfortable with.


    Hey, Tiffany. Hope you’re alright. This is an amazing information. It’s all basic. Bringing the baby home is an amazing thing. This is so emotional experience for every woman. When I took my baby from a surrogate. And hold her in my hand. I just burst into tears. That was so emotional. I really love my daughter very much.

    Anika louis

    Hey. Thanks for sharing such an informative post. It would be really helpful for many Infertile people out there. Surrogacy is indeed a blessing for Infertile people like us. I also faced Infertility due to Uterine polyps disease. I was broken and devastated. My husband wanted babies badly too. He supported me too and stand by me in every hard situation. I never lost hope because I knew that there might be something for me. I heart about the process of surrogacy randomly from any website. I made my mind and told my husband about surrogacy that I want to go for it at any cost. So he agreed. We went for it. We went to the clinic in Europe and they provided us with the matched and healthy surrogate. She was very cooperative and didn’t face any complication during the process. So after a long time, I was blessed with a baby. We are so lucky that we have such ways to have babies like surrogacy.


    Well, Surrogacy is legal in a few countries. The contract is being signed between surrogate and IPs. When a surrogate gives birth to a baby, then she has no right on the baby. Although it is not easy for her, she does it for the happiness of others. I am happy that such a process was introduced in the world. Sometimes these are the last hope of the people. I am happy for those who got their babies after a lot of struggle. Surrogacy baby connects two people or two families for forever.

    Anika louis

    This is really an informative post. It would aware so many people out there who are seeking guidance about rules and laws of Surrogacy. you did a very good job of sharing such information with us. Surrogacy has got some legal issues. It’s not legal everywhere. By this post many people would get advantage who are going to have Surrogacy.

    Sara Alston

    Your post is really very optimistic. I loved your post. Let’s hope that this wonderful procedure will keep helping infertile couples. I myself is thinking of going for surrogacy. Let’s hope that this procedure will fulfil my desires. I have fixed my appointment with the clinic in Europe. Guys pray for me.

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