I’m glad this post is up. Some other time, you will have to reveal it the child. If the genes don’t match up. The genetic make up isn’t compatible. He or she will find out. And it’s alot of emotional drama with it. So better tell the child early, and let it out with ease. Be comfortable with the decision, it’s not a bad thing. Adoption is another thing, surrogacy is different. Be careful not to make it sound too alienated. Just keep the child in the loop. Tell them you’re biologically the same, just not the womb. Good luck ladies. Much love. And Take care.