Hello there, Surely life is cruel sometimes. And infertility is not an easy thing to surmount honestly. I have seen many women who have faced terrible consequences because of it. And it just breaks my heart to see that some of them are leftover alone and their husbands have divorced them. But im so glad that your husband was there for you. And stood with you in those bad times of the darkest days. Forums do help people and keep them updated well. That’s nice to hear that you got to know about the surrogacy through the forums. Well I would give you the advice to stay calm and patient as you are done with surrogacy. Im sure the results will bring you the happiness you are expecting. Goodluck!