Hi Dear, Im really sad to hear about the diagnosis. Infertility is getting common these days, unfortunately. Everyone has their own perspective regarding there experiences. I think surrogacy is a lot better than adoption. As you have an option of having your own baby despite the fact that you are infertile. But stay cautious and aware of some clinics that are a scam. Because of them a lot of people are suffering til now. L***s is one of them.