Hey. I was confused between the two as well. Until some friends and family suggested going for alternative procedures than adoption. I mean an adoption is a wonderful act. But it won’t fill the hole of infertility inside us until we get our own biological child. I mean there is no harm in trying at least right? So if god forbid, we fail, we will still have an option of adoption. Which is equally amazing. I suggest going for surrogacy at least once so you won’t regret not having your own genes around. I hope you get my point. In the end, the decision is yours of course. We can only suggest. Good luck. I wish you all the happiness.