I’m glad you came here with your problem. I hope I can help you out with it. In my opinion, both ways of having a baby are great. Ask yourself what you want to go for. Surrogacy is a great way of having a baby. It lets you have one that has your genes. The surrogate would only be the carrier of your baby. Adoption is great too. Whats better than giving a baby a home when it needs one? But some people want to have kids who are biologically related to them. Surrogacy lets you do that. You should talk to your husband about it. Surrogacy is affordable in some places nowadays. You can choose whatever you like. I’m sure you will make a wise decision.