Surrogacy or adoption ?
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August 28, 2018 at 12:39 pm #6265KellyParticipant
Hey there, how are you all? I hope you all are doing great. Life is made up of sorrows and happiness. Every woman wishes to have a baby of its own. Infertility is spreading rapidly. It is now common among most of the couples. It has destroyed so many dreams. I am infertile and can’t conceive a baby naturally. After marriage, I had to tie up my fallopian tubes due to financial problems. Now my financial status is great and wants to complete my family. I don’t know about surrogacy yet and I am looking for good advice. I am here so I can look for one. I would be very thankful. Kindly help me out.August 28, 2018 at 12:46 pm #6267Lauren RhoadesParticipant
Hey. I hope you’re alright. I’m sorry you had to go through all that. Infertility is a nightmare. I’d suggest you go for surrogacy. It’s definitely better than adoption. I mean the biological connection is there! What else could you possibly want?August 28, 2018 at 6:09 pm #6323CatherineParticipant
Surrogacy or adoption, this question surprises many IPs. It is difficult to decide. In adoption the parents to be haveno link with the child. In surrogacy at least there is some linkage with the childin the womb of the surrogate. If you can afford some extra bucks then surrogacy can be of real help. The adoption can have legal compications. The surrogacy on the other hand is done after completing all the legislation.August 29, 2018 at 9:13 am #6381Amelia CharParticipant
Hey there, how are you? I hope you are doing fine. I am really sorry about your infertility. Infertility is a curse on human beings. It has destroyed so many dreams. It is a wish of every woman to have its own baby. Motherhood is such a great feeling. I am infertile and can’t conceive a baby naturally. Surrogacy has saved my dream of enjoying motherhood. We had our first surrogacy from Ukraine and we are waiting for the results. This is a great option available for the infertile couples. Surrogacy has a success rate of more than 95%. I am very thankful to the clinic for helping us out. Thanks and hoping best for you.August 29, 2018 at 10:58 am #6392MichellevictorParticipant
Hello ladies. Please while choosing for adoption or surrogacy choose good clinics. Do not go to this clinic known as A****s. They are just looting people. They are fraud. Do not trust this clinic in anything. Please avoid going to this clinic. It is for your own betterment.August 29, 2018 at 11:28 am #6393Joanne SilviaParticipant
Hello, Kelly. You should go for surrogacy. I think it’s the perfect plan. Wouldn’t you rather have a baby that is yours? I know I would! You can do this, really. Good luck, I hope it works out!August 29, 2018 at 2:33 pm #6436queen13Participant
Dear Jules! How are you feeling now? I am worried about you. May you comforted by the outpouring love surrounding you. You have the support of your husband and this will also help you a lot. Infertility is not your fault it is by nature. Your anxious feelings are valid too. You should focus towards the solutions. Every problem has a solution. The science is very advanced. There are many treatments available. IVF is one of them. You can consult a good clinic and start your treatment after a proper checkup. I hope everything will be in your favor. It is not that difficult. Stay relaxed and optimistic.August 29, 2018 at 2:59 pm #6439AnonymousInactive
I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss it must be extremely devastating.
However, you shouldn’t be afraid to go for surrogacy as it is a rescue for so many women who are unable to conceive naturally. It is a great method as it allows one to be genetically linked with the baby and has a high rate of success as well. Being in the same boat I was lucky enough to find a clinic which is very inexpensive as compared to the clinic where I live. The clinic was doing the treatment legally and was also ensuring that everyone was following the legal framework. I was concerned about the health of the surrogates one of the reasons why I didn’t opt for private surrogacy. However, was glad to find out that in this clinic they had a medical test and if one passed it then they were only eligible to be the surrogates. Once a surrogate was pregnant she had to visit the clinic daily for check-ups as well. This was honestly amazing as the clinic was so efficient. The technology being used was so advanced that it was a complete mind blown moment for me. I was also very particular about the part where the custody of the child should belong to me. I was glad that the child’s rights would belong to me and I honestly felt better. Keeping the whole treatment secret would also be possible as you’ll be abroad for it. However, just make sure that your DH is in this with you otherwise there is no harm in opting for it. Always feel free to ask me more questions I am always ready to help. I hope you are soon able to conceive sending baby dust your way.August 29, 2018 at 3:39 pm #6448Felicia SazParticipant
I’m glad you came here with your problem. I hope I can help you out with it. In my opinion, both ways of having a baby are great. Ask yourself what you want to go for. Surrogacy is a great way of having a baby. It lets you have one that has your genes. The surrogate would only be the carrier of your baby. Adoption is great too. Whats better than giving a baby a home when it needs one? But some people want to have kids who are biologically related to them. Surrogacy lets you do that. You should talk to your husband about it. Surrogacy is affordable in some places nowadays. You can choose whatever you like. I’m sure you will make a wise decision.August 29, 2018 at 4:40 pm #6458VictoriaParticipant
Hey! Good to hear you’re better. I am sorry you had to go through the hardships. I think you’re making a good decision. Surrogacy will go well for you. You should try looking at clinics abroad. Even though you’re stable financially, they’ll be lighter on your wallet. I think you’ll do great. Don’t over think it. Just go. I’ve gotten it done as well. I’m totally satisfied. Keep us updated. Good luck! 🙂August 29, 2018 at 4:52 pm #6462monikaParticipant
Hey Kelly, I hope you are doing well. Infertility is the most difficult journey of anyone’s life. I myself am on the same boat! Therefore, I can understand that this is very hard. However, surrogacy has helped many people fight through infertility. From my personal experience, my advice will be to visit a clinic with a high success rate. Just make sure that the clinic has doctors that are experienced. Apart from that I also read the reviews about the clinic. It is because of this extensive research that I was able to find a good clinic for myself. I hope I was helpful! Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way. Just stay positive and strong. If you need any additional information do let me know. Do keep us updated.August 29, 2018 at 5:06 pm #6467AnonymousInactive
Hey there Kelly. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really sorry to hear about your situation. I know it must have been hard making the choice. I know how hard it gets I have seen many women go through this. However, you don’t really have to worry. I am sure you will get what you want. Surrogacy would be a very nice option. I think you should give it a try. However, do choose a clinic that has a good reputation. Lots of love for you. Take care of yourself. A lot of prayers too.August 29, 2018 at 6:05 pm #6478HaileyParticipant
Hello! Great to hear you’re better. I am sad you needed to experience the hardships. I believe you’re settling on a decent choice. Surrogacy will go well for you. You should take a stab at taking a gander at facilities abroad. Despite the fact that you’re steady fiscally, they’ll be lighter on your wallet. I figure you’ll do awesome. Don’t over think it. Simply go. I’ve completed it also. I’m completely fulfilled. Keep us refreshed. Good fortunes! 🙂August 29, 2018 at 6:16 pm #6481Johanna123Participant
Hey there Kelly. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really sorry to hear about your situation. I am sorry you had to go through the hardships. I think you’re making a good decision. Surrogacy will go well for you. You should try looking at clinics abroad. There are many treatments available. IVF is one of them. You can consult a good clinic and start your treatment after a proper checkup. Ukraine is one of the best in town. Try them. You won’t regret it. Take care love.August 29, 2018 at 6:25 pm #6489AnonymousInactive
Well, Both options are good. It depends on the budget of persons. If a person can afford adoption than he should adopt a child. Or if anyone wants to have their own baby than surrogacy is best for them. Through surrogacy, you will have your own baby. The choice is yours. My wishes are with you.
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