You are 100 percent true on that. I feel the same way. Encouragement plays a vital role in spreading the good in the society. A lot of people are doing service as a surrogate out of need. We should not bash them if at least support their cause. We are still so thankful to our surrogate for what she has done for us. It is a humble cause even if it is for money. We had support from this wonderful clinic in Europe. They were especially kind enough to let us contact our surrogate. She was checked on a regular basis without any extra cost.