Hello Berta! Hope you are doing good. You are right path dear. IVF is a good option don’t think too much thousands of couples have been through IVF procedure and now they are happy and satisfied with their kids. The thing you are thinking doesn’t matter dear. What all matters are your baby. So, focus on your baby which you will get after IVF. and yes, even IVF won’t help if you are going through mental trauma or anxieties. So, spare yourself from all this and hope for the best. Good luck