This is interesting discussion. Many couples find it hard to come up with names. Everyone will have the dream of having a child. But when it comes to choosing names it becomes a whole different story. But in my case. I started discussing names with my then boyfriend. that is before we got married. So when the babies came by. We were already knowing the names they will have. In instance. The first two children had their second names from my husband side. Then the third child will be from mu side. It will be like the child is mine. But I also participated in naming the first two children. like o gave the first names. Then my husband gave the second names,. that is easy if you look it my way. However different people have different methods of dealing with that situation. But now that you have gotten a name. It is good.