hello Asia Coleman! First of all, congratulations I am very happy for you. dear, I think all the families have their own problems. Some couldn’t bear the expenses of their child. And some couple wants to have a large gap. There is not a magic number of good time for your children. Children are always hungry for the devotion of their parents. I am not in favor to have a child again. I have only one child but I think he is enough for me. Dear if you want to have one more child. but I think your first child is grown up. Then you should grow your family. I will also recommend you to hire a maid who can take care of your child. dear, I also hire a maid for my child. have a nice day dear.