I had dealt with the exact same issue for almost 2 years. the greatest lesson I learned was that running away from your demons only fuel them and they always come back stronger.Take your problem as is and accept all facts. IVF is a strong option but I would recommend getting a fertility test before that to see how much chance of success IVF has.Do not waste your money on it.the point you made about the immorality of extracorporeal would have been valid if life was beautiful because of the path it begins and not the path it takes. Take care of yourself I will be thinking about you.