Dear Noreen, it is so sweet of you. You are so concerned about your friend. People like you can make the unpleasant lives of the people in misery worth living. If you ask me I would suggest surrogacy. In adoption, you get someone else’s child. Contrary to this through surrogacy, you can have a child of your own. It is the sperm of the hubby and the egg of the mummy that unite inside the surrogate. This baby is genetically linked with you. The cost is not that much. If you mean happiness you should be ready to go to all lengths. Places like Ukraine have less expensive opportunities. They are reliable and worth visiting. They are great friends for everyone. I have full faith that your commitment will bring happiness to your friend’s life.