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March 23, 2018 at 7:54 am #1300TrishaParticipant
So I am typing this on behalf of my friend. She is stranded to what she will do. Either to go for surrogacy or adoption. I do know that both differ. From cost to mental affiliation. But in this case what can I tell her. She told me to help her choose. Currently she has no problem with money. So either options can suit her. But the problem is taht she does not know what to go for. I told her to give me sometime so that I can figure it out. Perhaps in my research I might come up with something that will be helpful. She trusts me so much and I don’t want to mess her up. That is the reason I came here for help. Perhaps there is someone who has been through any of the options. You can advise me on its advantages or disadvantages. Then from there I can pick what to do. I really need your help.March 23, 2018 at 2:02 pm #1303Joanne SilviaParticipant
Hello Noreen. Hope you and your friend are good, today. Surrogacy is a very reliable option. People usually have problems because it is considered expensive. It is low-risk and safe. She’d still need to find the right clinic. Good luck to your friend!March 23, 2018 at 3:20 pm #1309monikaParticipant
The clinic that I am looking forward to signing up for surrogacy basically invited me for my first free consultation to solve this problem of mine. I was also confused about both these procedures as I wasn’t sure what will ensure that I really am able to become a mother. The doctors were experienced and professional. They after studying my case and the problem I was going through. Suggested that I go for surrogacy as IVF will disappoint me. So I think she should also do the same visit a doctor and let them decide for her. Surrogacy obviously will guarantee that she is able to have a baby. Whereas with IVF there is no surety as it might only work after 1 to 2 cycles.March 23, 2018 at 3:28 pm #1311CatherineParticipant
Dear Noreen, it is so sweet of you. You are so concerned about your friend. People like you can make the unpleasant lives of the people in misery worth living. If you ask me I would suggest surrogacy. In adoption, you get someone else’s child. Contrary to this through surrogacy, you can have a child of your own. It is the sperm of the hubby and the egg of the mummy that unite inside the surrogate. This baby is genetically linked with you. The cost is not that much. If you mean happiness you should be ready to go to all lengths. Places like Ukraine have less expensive opportunities. They are reliable and worth visiting. They are great friends for everyone. I have full faith that your commitment will bring happiness to your friend’s life.March 23, 2018 at 5:50 pm #1318hailey johnsonParticipant
Hello there! I hope you and your friend are doing fine. I think you should give her the green light for surrogacy. I got married in 2009. I have had two miscca5riages since then/. I had lost all hope to become a mother. Then my husband and I decided to try surrogacy. Now I am blessed with a beautiful baby boy. Best of luck. Cheers!March 24, 2018 at 3:34 pm #1342kim01Participant
Hey, hope you and your friend are doing good. I think you asked for it the right place. I would love to share my experience so that would help you to make a decision. I tried to conceive for 5 years. Although my husband loves me a lot and he never talked about having babies or anything. I knew that he wants babies badly. But the problem was with me. I was facing infertility and we both were facing the aftermath of my infertility. So we decided one day to choose something else. We had 2 options. Adoption and surrogacy. I was against adoption because I had a view that maybe I won’t be able to take care of that baby like my own. So we chose surrogacy. I was lucky that I met a couple having a baby through surrogacy. they suggested me clinic in Europe. They told me every aspect of surrogacy. They further told me a very important thing that the baby genetically belongs to intended parents I was so happy this was all I wanted. Now I have my biological baby. I am happy with my decision. We are planning to have another baby this year.March 25, 2018 at 9:08 pm #1375GracehillParticipant
Hello lovely lady.I welcome you here.Surrogacy is the great option for her and also reliable.I myself this process.It’s too much an amazing process.I am confusing and not knowing very well about that.After long thinking and searching, I could find this process.I would suggest that your friend must have to take this.Being a mother, I knew there is no happiness in life without children.surrogacy is the great blessing for all the intended parents.I do appreciate all the surrogates, they are doing great work.I had to take this process in the clinic, where the most important thing I have to inspire because it’s cost is affordable.And the second thing is we genetically attached to the baby.Keep going on.I wish your friend all the best of luck.March 26, 2018 at 10:46 am #1394MilanParticipant
There are many wonderful ways to form a family. For many same-sex couples and those struggling with infertility or health challenges that make pregnancy difficult. Two common options are adoption and surrogacy. These family-building methods share several similarities. They are both rewarding, life-changing journeys on the path to parenthood. Surrogacy and adoption also differ in a few key ways. It is up to each hopeful parent to consider these differences. As well as their personal circumstances. As they decide which option is best for them. It is best to prepare yourself for a long waiting period. As well as for the costs that each option entails. Make an honest evaluation of your family’s needs. Once you determine that adoption or surrogacy is indeed the right course of action for everyone involved. Prepare for the life-changing journey to come. The process can be lengthy and challenging.April 3, 2018 at 12:57 am #1670Shirley AkinParticipant
Hey Noreen! How are you? The choice between surrogacy and adoption is a big question. She needs to consider her priorities. Through surrogacy, you have a chance at having a baby genetically related to you. But in adoption, there is no such thing. I can tell you what I’ll do if I was in the same position as her. If the baby can be 100% related to us, I’ll go for surrogacy. I mean if my eggs and husband’s sperms were viable enough. But if either one of them can’t be used, adoption it is. I can’t stand the chance of knowing my child belongs to my husband and not me. It seems weird. But it is true. In that case, it is better that child belongs to neither. But that’s my opinion. Good look with your decision.September 18, 2018 at 12:45 pm #6683standsgallifreyParticipant
It is unease decision, many of needs to think out. But, if your friend can
t have a child as for me, it is better to adopt a child. Because at first, youll help one more orphan have a family. Secondly, what`s matter besides this? By the way, I heard about a girl, that was pregnant by a man, who just called for a slut. It is funny, as for me. To ensure that such problems do not happen, I use this https://escortinfrankfurt.info Escort service, where good girls know what to do in this situations
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