Dear Victori in your comprehensive post you have done a remarkable job. Your personal experiences have made you a mentor in yourself. You have done a great job by mentioning that life is not stress but it is hope. Infertile couples suffer because they lose hope. When they stop standing by each other the things get really worse. The most important aspect for the IPs to consider is that look for something great that can replace your misery with happiness. It is not something difficult. You can bring back the spark to your life. With the technological advancement, it has become really possible to get what was impossible few years back. Surrogacy and IVF are the great options. Whatever procedure suits you, you can opt for it. There are several clinics all over the world with this facility. Anyone can access them. There is no need to worry about finances either.