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March 26, 2018 at 3:16 pm #1415VictoriaParticipant
Hi everyone! I want to let everyone know that you’re not alone if you’re unable to conceive. You’ll get there! Just keep trying. If you’re declared infertile, don’t lose hope then either! There are options like surrogacy for you to get your own biological child. I tried it for myself and had a really good experience. I have a little girl now! Please do not lose hope. I’d love to help out more if I can.March 26, 2018 at 4:15 pm #1417CatherineParticipant
Dear Victori in your comprehensive post you have done a remarkable job. Your personal experiences have made you a mentor in yourself. You have done a great job by mentioning that life is not stress but it is hope. Infertile couples suffer because they lose hope. When they stop standing by each other the things get really worse. The most important aspect for the IPs to consider is that look for something great that can replace your misery with happiness. It is not something difficult. You can bring back the spark to your life. With the technological advancement, it has become really possible to get what was impossible few years back. Surrogacy and IVF are the great options. Whatever procedure suits you, you can opt for it. There are several clinics all over the world with this facility. Anyone can access them. There is no need to worry about finances either.March 27, 2018 at 5:19 am #1429chicagoParticipant
Victoria you really deliver motivational words. I inspired. But let me introduce one thing here clearly. That is what should one do when her beloved ones leave her alone in the critical situation. Where we should find such a shoulder to cry on.? Means if you think that surrogacy is the option. Ok, right it is. But for traveling to another country it demands a person who will travel with you. who support you. especially husband is the best suitable person for this scene. So we can say that a woman requires husband’s support in this whole game. Other people also effect but not as much as a husband. He should take care of her wife. because she is suffering these troubles, not for herself. She does this to give relief to her husband. That’s my point.March 27, 2018 at 10:20 am #1434AnonymousInactive
I also had 3 miscarriages during my first marriage.I always had complications while getting pregnant.Now i’m married for second time at the age of 43. Having a look at my previous pregnancies i guess it is not a good idea to be pregnant again. So i persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy and he is ready to go for it if we will have a baby of our own DNA.
So i started looking out for good clinics regarding surrogacy.I researched over the web and found many clinics regarding surrogacy.
While i was researching about surrogacy i came across the name of biotexcom clinic many times. Having very good positive reviews.So i contacted that clinic and told them about my issue.They said they will help us in every possible way.They told me about their procedure and they will help us in every aspect. They told us that we can have baby of our own DNA sample. Surrogate mother will not have any effect on our child. She will just keep our child in her womb. The clinic will find a good surrogate for our baby. They will test her and will analyze if she can carry our child in her womb or not.
If someone has some experience regarding surrogacy let me know your experience than.March 27, 2018 at 11:22 am #1437AnonymousInactive
Hello Victoria. As you have already gone through all this procedure. So I would like to take some tips from you. I need some suggestions from you. I am 33 years old. My problem is that I cannot conceive naturally. Because doctor recognized me of heart disease. I have mitral stenosis. Due to which blood in my heart veins do not flow in a streamline manner. Rather its flow is in turbulent way. Thus, doctor said that I should not try to conceive in future. Now I am thinking of any other way to have a baby. As you have told your success story, I am considering it. But don’t have any proper information about it. That which clinic I should visit. What are your opinion in this regard. Please suggest me some good clinic as I am very tensed that what gonna happen with me now If I cant become a mommy.March 27, 2018 at 2:51 pm #1442kim01Participant
Yes, you are right. I have seen that there are many couples who want babies badly. It was sometimes hard to believe that I cannot be a mother until I came to know about surrogacy. Surrogacy is one of the common way of having babies. My DH and I always wanted to have babies. The problem was with me. I was not able to conceive. My DH always supported me in every hard time. He was with me and someone told him about surrogacy. We talked about this to each other and we both agreed because I had already wasted 5 years of my life. We went for it to a renown clinic and there we were blessed with twins. The clinic provided healthy surrogate to us that gave birth to a healthy child. We didn’t face any complication. We have a biological baby now and she just turned 2 years. We are planning to have another baby too. I hope this would help other too.March 27, 2018 at 3:29 pm #1444AkiraParticipant
Surrogacy has been a good thing for me after all.I read about surrogacy alot.I heard people talking about it mostly on the forums or on different social platforms.
I had hystrestomy cancer.I am cancer free but i can’t be a mom anymore.I was ver upset and stressed.But my husband was there to support me.He assured me that he will do everything to have us a baby.
So we came to know about surrogacy.Firstly we both searched about surrogacy we understood every aspect of surrogacy.Than we moved to Europe from Japan.Japan has banned surrogacy totally so we moved.We stayed in Europe for 4 months and consulted some clinics too.
but due to several reasons my husband was not very satisfied.Then we moved to Ukraine.We heard from many people about many clincis in Ukraine.Ukraine is very popular as per surrogacy.In Ukraine we contacted a clinic and than the clinic started our journey of surrogacy.
Now the surrogate mother is pregnant with our twin daughters.We are very excited to have our own babies now.March 27, 2018 at 5:06 pm #1454Felicia SazParticipant
Hey, Victoria. Hope you are doing well. Thank you so much for this post. It was very motivational. I Hope this helps someone who is struggling right now. I look back in time and feel so blessed right now. The struggle was unbearable. How I managed to deal with all the heartbreaks and the bad news is beyond me lol. I guess one gets the patience to deal with things according to the situations. Surrogacy came to me as a blessing. I have a son now. My clinic and my surrogate helped me so much. I owe them for the happiness they have given me. My child is very precious to me. I really hope everyone gets to experience this.April 1, 2018 at 11:39 pm #1639Shirley AkinParticipant
Congratulations lady. So happy for you. And I must say this is so nice of you to share such a nice post. You are a strong lady. It is so kind of you to spread love and hope. Your post is quite helpful for people who are struggling. Keep posting more. Lots of love and luck to you. More power to you.April 3, 2018 at 5:49 pm #1682AnonymousInactive
Hello @Victoria, so nice to see your post. It really filled my heart with deep joy and happiness. Just like others, I’m also facing fertility issues for more than three years. But I’m glad that I’m not alone in this journey. You have shared some modern terms which are newer to me. Can you please give some more info relating to surrogacy? Also, kindly share your experience. This means millions to me!April 3, 2018 at 5:57 pm #1683smash12Participant
Dear Victori in your exhaustive post you have completed a wonderful activity. Your own encounters have made you a coach in yourself. You have completed an awesome activity by saying that life isn’t pressuring yet it is trust. Fruitless couples endure in light of the fact that they lose trust. When they quit remaining by each other the things deteriorate. You can convey back the start of your life. With the mechanical progression, it has turned out to be extremely conceivable to get what was an outlandish couple of years back. Surrogacy and IVF are the considerable alternatives. Whatever method suits you, you can decide on it. There are a few centres everywhere throughout the world with this office. Anybody can get to them. There is no compelling reason to stress over funds either.April 4, 2018 at 5:10 pm #1690ezabelParticipant
How are you doing?
Hope your little girl is also doing fine!
Such a motivational post. You guys must post on such forums often.
This boost up the courage of people like me to go for such reproductive treatments.
I am also looking for this procedure for so long.
Many individuals have false perspective regarding this procedure.
Many of the fertility clinics are seem to be doing a great job in this.
I would love to hear from you details of your fertility clinic.April 4, 2018 at 6:26 pm #1697ainaParticipant
Hey Victoria. Well, this is really a good job. In your brief post, you had described your personal experience with surrogacy. Surrogacy indeed a good service provided to the people. Where the surrogacy is a good option for infertility. The other side of this process is the surrogate person. Who offers her self for it. This is really an emotional time when u get pregnant with others baby. And after baby’s birth, Hanover that baby to the exact parents of his/her. I really appreciate those ladies who offer her selves for others problem. In another hand, they are paid for it. I appreciate you too, that you shared your personal experience with the people. From these posts, people get motivated and get know about their solutions. Hats off to you guys for sharing such experiences with us<3April 4, 2018 at 7:47 pm #1703ClayJonesParticipant
Hey there Victoria. How are you doing? I hope you are doing great. I am glad to see this. This is so nice of you. This is very inspiring. I am sure it’ll help a lot of people. Thank you and Good luck. Take care.April 5, 2018 at 3:05 pm #1719NINAParticipant
If you are unable to conceive then don’t worry. It is naturally given to you by God. people who are unable to conceive have become very depressed from their lives They should not be sad because of it. There are people who were not able to perform all these things and have not done it. People who have been through it are now happy. I have seen them become more consistent in their lives as they have been doing a lot. They are more concentrated on their lives. Having your own child is a blessing and there is nothing like that. I wish you all the best for your procedure. good luck.
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