hey, I am happy for you. feeling motivated by your characters and your roles. Especially your DH. He is supporting you all time. no matter what the situation is. Jules when you become a married person the life becomes too hectic. you can’t say easily to your mother-in-law that you want this and that. Try to first convince your husband. Tell him it’s pros and cons. If he really cares you and loves, he will negotiate this issue with his mother. Try to discuss in such a presentable way. Don’t realize them you are uncomfortable with this activity. this will enhance their aggression. They will make a try to do against you. best of luck!!!