Hi there! I think this is a great thread. Many times we’re so focused on ourselves and our happiness. We forget about the others. It’s beautiful what surrogates do. They are so selfless in this decision of theirs. There’s definitely a lot of heartache, stress, and sickness involved in pregnancy. And to give the baby away at the end! It’s totally justified for them to charge a lot. I went with surrogacy to get my baby too. However, I chose a clinic rather than privately doing it. It was so relieving because the clinic was amazing. So careful and thoughtful. I hope everyone going through this has a great experience. Fingers crossed for you! Good luck!