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Shirley Akin

Hey Noreen! How are you? The choice between surrogacy and adoption is a big question. She needs to consider her priorities. Through surrogacy, you have a chance at having a baby genetically related to you. But in adoption, there is no such thing. I can tell you what I’ll do if I was in the same position as her. If the baby can be 100% related to us, I’ll go for surrogacy. I mean if my eggs and husband’s sperms were viable enough. But if either one of them can’t be used, adoption it is. I can’t stand the chance of knowing my child belongs to my husband and not me. It seems weird. But it is true. In that case, it is better that child belongs to neither. But that’s my opinion. Good look with your decision.